Whoop Whoop

The guy that I wrote to, who is 38 and looking for a good woman, or however he put it, I wrote to him, today, and said this:

You know, when someone writes you a polite email, expressing an interest in getting to know you, the least you could do is return a polite reply of no thank you. 

He replied and said this:

hey!
whoa! put down the baseball bat girl!
actually I need to be captured or domesticated by some woman, lol!
the only question is do you really believe you can make me submit?
sorry about not getting back to you, your email was in my spam folder and didn't notice it till you wrote again!
what kind of fiction do you like to write?
Bryan

And, I said this :

Pshaw .. if you want to submit, you will submit. If you don’t want to, no amount of kicking will help. lol  Can I do something more than act like a brat, parade my tits around and demand money? Yes. Can I do those things, anyway? Surely. lol

Uhm .. the weird kind. I should be doing some right now, in fact, as I was with Lulu.com but they screwed my account up so bad  and now I kind of have to rewrite my book, the main one I had self published, and, then see about sending it off to be rejected by real publishing houses, instead.  I write a lot of stuff, from time to time, but, the main thing I write is about the land of Ordine, on the world of Ordem, which is ruled by the god Chaos; and, events related to that. The book in question is Chronicles of Ordine: Book I: Sacred Beggar Boy, which is an explantion, in some weird fashion, of their main religion and how the sacred beggar boy got to be the sacred beggar boy.

You need to be domesticated as in you are a bad boy, who would like a long-suffering wife to wait at home and berate him for whatever he smells like, that he shouldn’t, when he comes stumbling in at the wrong hour of the morning? Or, as in  you’d like to be told that you are taking her shopping for a new whip, then ordered to your knees when you get home with it, so she can break it in? Or, something in-between?

Arletta

and this:

Oh, and PS: What sort of fiction do you write?

Here’s a URL to a blog where I’m moving my rough drafts, old blogs, journal posts, etc. to. So, if you care to take a look, you’ll see fine examples of what I write, for work, poetry, and otherwise.  Might even answer your question about my capabilities to domesticate, too. xx

So .. so. . hmm ...

Here it is, 3 pm and more writing has occurred :

hey
actually, I am the kinda guy that could be made to submit, you just would have to know how...
gonna go read some of your stuff and we'll see...
I just want a woman that is a little aggressive and knows I am vulnerable to her.
Anything like horror, fantasy, sci-fi, westerns, etc
That's part of my problem, I think I need a woman that can provide "structure" and like make me write:)
Bryan

Still, Bryan, what it comes down to is knowing the person and the person wanting to submit. As has amply been proven by William Wallace, Spartacus, Gandhi and Jesus, there is no such thing as forcing someone to submit who really doesn’t want it. However, as was also proven by them all, most people who have the strength for it will submit to what is important to them to keep in their lives.

I don’t play games with brats, who want to challenge me every step of the way and be beat down. That’s far too unpleasant, and, I have had enough unpleasantness in my life. But, I am entirely the sort of person who will make sure you learn to show up when I tell you to,  who will make sure you know what the rules are, and, who is not adverse to taking disciplinary measures, anything from what one might do to a child to what one might do to a slave – though, probably a slave that one likes. lol  And, there is reason I don’t have anyone in my life, right now; which is that I am extraordinary picky about some aspects of what I will put up with, and I don’t need a man. I would like to have a good man, who was companionable and gentlemanly to some degree, good at sex, interesting to talk to, etc.  But, I don’t need one, so I don’t have to put up with things not going my way, and I will not, except where it amuses me to do so, or where circumstances outside of our control dictate it must be so.

For me, I don’t need someone to give me structure, as to what to write; but, I do need someone to give me something. A muse, for want of a better descriptive. I want to be in love, mad, passionate, wild, crazy love.

By the way, the fact that you mentioned the provision of structure tells me a lot. I’m very good at that.  Not just with writing, but, in that way, too.  To have a man who is willing to live with that structure, but, who does not go too far the other way, is an ideal I have yet to achieve. “Too far the other way” being about me having met far too many men who claim to want to submit, but, who really want to be abused and forced to perform disgusting acts, that really degrade everyone associated with them. I shan’t go into detail, though, unless you need me to.

What did you think of my photo?

Arletta